male chastity path

Edging and massage

2011-10-01T14:28:00.000-07:00

Was chatting with a friend last night about massage and how sexy it is to oil up a guy, slide my cock up and down the ass of the guy I am touching, and drop lots of pre cum. (I can dream, can't I?) Massage is slow with lots of physical intimate touch (hooray for intimate touching) & is not "officially" a sexual thing....but often lead there. Massage videos rank up there with some of my favorites. They are so unpredictable, and their is intimacy with often pushed boundaries between the two guys. No quick formula sex here. Yesterday, I stumbled on a video of one of my current hot porn guys, Steven Daigle, known from his appearance on Big Brother and now featured in some Jason Sparks videos and DVDs. I love watching Steven get fucked. But Part 1 of this massage video is even better. Steven is massaged by a hunky horny masseur with his clothes on. What a tease. Made me hard and wet to watch. A good edging video that stops just when I want more. A nice edging scene that stimulates my imagination and helps me get hot, but allows me to save that load for a time when a KH or sir gives permission. Please sir, can I cum now?

Been taking a short break....be back soon

2011-09-29T12:22:00.000-07:00

Hey readers. I'll be back soon with more on chastity, edging, caging, good (and bad) boys, spanking, favorite porn videos and more soon. I've been busy with catching up on some work and family stuff. Stay tuned! In the meantime, catch this cute guy getting a prostate massage video on one of my favorite fetish film sites. Catch the video here. I think I need to call my doctor.....lol

More on edging and ruined cum

2011-09-24T13:01:00.000-07:00

I already said I like edging and that I am fond of slave842's videos. This morning I edged for about an hour without cumming. My body always seems confused when I don't cum, but I do stay mentally on edge for quite a while after a session...a topic for another post. A fellow chastity traveler & I have been commenting on edging by email. I wonder is a ruined cum is only "valid" if there isn't any actual stroking to reach orgasm ....or if no cock touching is allowed? The question arose after watching slave842's ruined cum video. He presses his cock down when he cums leading the master to say "hands off now!" I like hearing the master control 842's stroke rhythm (you can even hear the stroke counter) and hear 842 beg to cum as an obedient cum-submissive boy. Check out Extended Edging and ruined cum and let me know what you think. You might wear ear plugs or a headset to better hear the master's words. Is this a ruined cum or not? ...."please sir, let me cum...."

Edging and who needs to rent DVD's anymore?

2011-09-20T12:42:00.000-07:00

I friend of mine says he doesn't need to rent DVDs anymore. Yesterday (Ok, I confess and again today) I was prowling around Gay Tube Male Tube.com on the "massage" page. I found a video from Chaos Men. I really like Chaos Men because of their "Edge" series which throws me over the edge (no pun untended)! The idea of edging, both myself and someone else,makes me wild. Edging is very popular in the Cages & Locked Up scene too. I have edged a guy until he cries for release. So much fun! he he Massage can be sort of like edging with erotic physical teasing thrown in for fun. In the video one hot hairy chested guy is massaging a another guy. (The hairy chested guy is yummy!) Of course, on free sites, most videos are promos tempting us to subscribe. But I found this video pretty hot. Check out Gay Stud gets Real Massage. But be careful, the hours pass fast prowling around Internet free porn. For me, there is still something erotic about popping in a DVD, kicking back with my favorite lube, joining my favorite porn actors and....well you know. Plus I get to see the money shot which is hard to find on some sites.

Edged, Locked up videos and photos

2011-09-17T12:12:00.000-07:00

X-Tube has many guys who feature collections of edged, caged and even ruined orgasm videos. One of my favorites is slave842. He's a hot lad who submits to his orgasm master. I love his ruined cum video in which his stern master keeps him edged and slave842 finally ruins his orgasm. On request, he recently posted his first caged video, tying up his balls. Check out slave842's "Tyi ng up balls while in chastity" on X-tube. I love his sexy legs too.

Bondage verses Locked up

2011-09-15T13:17:00.000-07:00

I am learning from a fellow locked up traveler that words like "master" and "slave" are not locked up terms. Oh for sure, there is plenty of porn showing guys being locked up as part of their "punishment" or bondage. Bound Gods is a super site for caged bondage hot videos. I wish I could afford a membership, but I'll just have to enjoy the previews for now...but I digress. I imagine many men enjoy submitting to being locked up/caged and controlled by their KH. And certainly many enjoy being in control. But the line appears to be drawn by the agreement made by two men who enter a locked up/KH relationship. What also is interesting is that two caged men can be KH's to each other. What they learn from each other and the boundaries established are agreed voluntary experiences. Bondage on the other hand, gives an appearance of force. (Indeed its all acting in porn...or is it? LOL) Its a subtle distinction, but an important one, blurred by bondage porn.

Locked/Caged videos and photos

2011-09-13T12:43:00.000-07:00

I discovered the idea of being caged or locked up on X-Tube where there are many extremely hot caged men to which I have subscribed. The whole concept makes my adrenaline rush (& my cock leaky) which I know many of you share with me.

I have also been searching other sites for locked up scenes. Bound God s has several caged guys in some of their videos. You can scroll thru them, and check the previews that will make you horny and tempt you to subscribe. One of my favorite discoveries is Metalbond, which features six separate chastity topic areas (topics are listed on the left side of the site about one or two scroll clicks down) and Metalbond often shows caged guys in hot porn too.

A very hot photo is on the opening page today. After you're hard and leaking while looking at the first few photos, check out "chastity reader pix" topic where I found these two hot guys "working out." My fantasy: two good boys, behaving well and keeping their cocks protected and out of trouble. (Picture from Carerra Designs.)

36 hours locked

2011-09-12T11:02:00.000-07:00

My first locked experience ended at 1AM this morning at 36 hours.

Not bad for the first lock!

I was doing some late night reading, and my balls and cock were starting to get irritated by the cock cage vents which seems to have some sharp edges. So I grabbed the key and unlocked the CB3K and freed myself for the night.

It was an interesting experience. My mind is thinking about this. To make sense of the experience. Have a bit of a negative reaction going on this morning, but perhaps that is the post-cum, post-locked "period" of a self-locked man.

I want to sincerely thank Matt47 for holding my hand and loaning me the cage.

Stay tuned for further adventures and comments.

30+ hours and counting

2011-09-11T19:21:00.000-07:00

WTF, I left the littler "bugger" (CB3000) on so, up 30+ hours and counting. Might end up locked for a 2nd night. Experienced my first "off site." away from home pee experience at In & Out Burger this afternoon. Sitting down to pee is so much fun. LOL

Oh, and my balls wave hello to those reading. They have adjusted to being "on alert" all the time, and not sore at all. Lucky me.

And a big wave to Matt47 who is walking along with me through my first lock up!

Almost there, about an hour to go.

2011-09-11T11:42:00.000-07:00

Counting the minutes to 1pm to unlock this CB3K. I'm OK. Slept pretty well. My balls are still puzzled and wondering when they get to release.

As I usually do on free Sunday mornings, I watched some favorite porn after I woke up. I would learn what is would be like to get stimulated in the cage. It was lots of fun at first. My cock wanted to get hard and engorged in the cage. And started to leak gobs of juice. I tried to touch and feel my cock trough the pee slit. The underside of my cock was incredibly sensitive to any touch which usually resulted in a release of pre-cum fluids. Felt like one of Chirenon's caged boys getting a milking :) My body produces lots of pre-cum fluids, and when hard, become pretty leaky, and sometimes almost don't need lube.

I played for about 2 hours (its easy to waste time watching porn, especially with TIM stuff) and became pretty frustrated. So I turned off the porn, got up, and now I'm ready to shower.

I am tempted to leave this bugger on for the rest of today. I'll be pretty busy later and distracted. But I can get pretty devious and figure out how to make it happen when I really want to cum.

8 hours self locked

2011-09-10T21:02:00.000-07:00

The CB3000 was locked at 1 PM and I have been locked for 8 hours. What an incredible feeling of lack of control over my cock. My balls have been tight (but comfortable) and my cock leaking for almost the entire time.

It will be an interesting first night locked.

Goal: 24 hours - 1:00 PM Sunday

keyholderdad locked in CB3k

2011-09-10T16:12:00.001-07:00

My blog was listed on LockedM4M as "cuddlydad" in error. Hopefully this will be corrected by the LockedM4M administrator soon. My name on LockedM4M is actually "keyholderdad"

HOORAY, I am locked for the first time in a CB3K.
My cock is puzzled, my balls confused, buy my prostate is leaking like crazy. Some brain cells are having a great time being locked.

Locked: 3 hours at time of this post.

Correct link

2011-09-10T09:36:00.000-07:00

Its Saturday morning. Foot tapping as I wait for the post man to arrive. Here is the corrected link to LockedM4M: http://www.lockedm4m.net/

24 hours: waiting for Jailhouse & CB3000

2011-09-09T19:12:00.000-07:00

When joined WWW.LockedM4M .com, and read many linked blogs, I found many helpful stories of chastity experiences. As I began to think of "what am I?" I was contacted by a great guy from the Midwest USA, who welcomed me to the site. We started to email, and chat by phone. Over the last week we shared our stories, and we're even discussing a challenge. (Who can stay locked the longest) Matt is loaning me a CB3K and a metal Jailhouse to "sample" for a couple of weeks. Its a beauty for sure, and makes me crazy with anticipation. BUT...."looks aren't everything" Matt says to give the CB3K a ride too, and let comfort be my guide. (I hope to try a CB6K soon) Its been great having a fellow traveler as I begin this journey. Tomorrow (if the USPS comes through) reality hits and the "intro" is over. Shall I accept his challenge right away? Or hang loose?

The Pathway

2011-09-09T11:37:00.000-07:00

I stumbled on some chastity videos int he last weeks, and became fixated on the idea (and the videos) of being a key holder, and then of being locked. (After all a KH needs to know what his boy is experiencing) I signed up to a locked web site, and off I went into a new world of excitement and experiences. This blog is about my discoveries and adventures as I begin taking steps on this pathway.

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